4. the ethical analysis of love: love as a virtue and the personalistic norm. Put simply, love as attraction here means that a man, for instance, is attracted to a woman and vice versa, not merely because of sexual values but as a person of the opposite sex. Love as desire is, as it were, a “need love”: a person is in need of something—here “some one”—in order to fulfill or complete himself. It is not necessarily selfish but can become so; it is
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